After arriving and eating lunch, we split into two groups. Donna, Justin and Caroline went to the Hemingway House, while Aimee and I took Rowan to a little museum about the history of the wrecking industry on Key West and then to the Aquarium. Both places offered a cool experience.
The museum used actors to share information about the historical significance of wrecking and salvage of ships near the Keys. Above the museum was a tower than went quite a ways up, offering great views of the town and the water. Rowan had fun ringing a bell up there, and the really strong breeze up there only slightly dampened all of our enthusiasm.
Aimee & Rowan outside Key West Aquarium Dec. 14 |
We finished our tour with a stop at an ice cream shop, while the other group grabbed some key lime pie, and then we rendezvoused. It was as we walked back to the cars that I had an idea...
Aimee & I on a date night in Key West, Dec 14 |
We went to a seafood place for drinks and appetizers. We followed that with souvenir shopping (and buying a bunch of delicious fudge to take back to everyone else). Finally, we walked along the water and our gazes alternated between the street performers and the sunset. In other words, it was the kind of carefree fun that came so easily to Aimee and I when we were out together. It was a perfect date night.
It was our last one.
Pat,
ReplyDeleteThanks for being so open about your memories, emotions, and faith throughout this painful tragedy. You should know that you're touching people well beyond your immediate circle of family and friends. I'm a co-worker of Justin's. My wife and I, and our church in Bethesda MD, have been remembering you in prayer.
Your openness reminds me of some Christian friends who started blogging when their daughter was diagnosed with a terminal disease a couple years ago. Different situation, but similar demonstration of faith in the midst of grieving. It might also encourage you: www.beautifulcanvas.org.
God bless,
Eric
I'm so glad that you did have such a great last date night with Aimee - it's a good reminder for me to live each day more intentionally for sure.
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ReplyDeleteI want to thank you so much for sharing yours and Rowan's memories, and time with Aimee. I have never had the chance to meet you or Rowan but I do know that Aimee was such a proud wife and mother. Through your stories of happiness like your last beautiful date night, I now see why every time she mentioned or spoke of you and Rowan her face couldn't but help light up like a ray of sunshine and that smile of hers spread from ear to ear . I hope you know what an inspiration you are to me and so many. Even without knowing you I now you and Aimee both shared amazing strength and courage. You guys are in my prayers everyday. God is for sure surrounding you and Rowan with his angels and I know for a fact that Aimee is one of them.
Ayisha Hendrix
I see true joy in Aimee's smiling face. She KNEW you loved and accepted her completely and she felt safe in your love. You gave her this gift that all women want and very few ever know. In fact most women I have known don't even think this is truly possible. I guess that includes me. But when I see this and read this I am so encouraged.
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